Anne was born in about 1560 to 1653 – she was a girl remember- to a Yorkshire family. When she was somewhere between eighteen and twenty, she became one of Elizabeth I’s ladies-in-waiting. Her links with the Kynvet family through her mother were probably what landed her a plum job at court. Her sister would also serve the queen and cause almost as much scandal as Anne.
Unfortunately rather than being a chaste ornament in the court of the Virgin Queen, Anne was chased and caught by Edward de Vere, the 17th Earl of Oxford – one of Elizabeth I’s favourites. He was approximately ten years older than Anne and already had something of a reputation for naughtiness not to mention an unfortunately scandalous marriage of his own.
Anne and Edward de Vere had an illegitimate son which came as a shock to the other ladies she shared her chambers with as she had successfully managed to keep her pregnancy secret. Edward couldn’t marry Anne as he was already married to Anne Cecil the daughter of William Cecil. The fact that the pair didn’t get on is neither here nor there. Nor is the fact that he was widely regarded as a cuckold
The day after Anne became a mother she was packed off to the Tower. Presumably Anne was relieved that Elizabeth hadn’t shouted and thrown things at her in the way that she had at Anne Shelton when she’d married John Scudamore on the quiet. A flying candle stick broke the poor woman’s fingers.
Edward de Vere, who does not come out of this shining with the glow of a hero, was caught trying to leave the country. He was also invited to spend some time considering the error of his ways in the Tower. This happened in 1581. De Vere wasn’t allowed back to court for the next two years.
The consequences of the affair were that Anne’s reputation was ruined. De Vere had no part in the raising of his son – named Edward Vere – although he did leave him some land. The child was actually cared for by the earl’s cousin Sir Francis. There were assorted duels as a consequence of besmirched honour that resulted in the death of a number of servants mainly because Anne’s uncle Sir Thomas Knyvet wasn’t terribly happy about the way things had turned out. And finally, posterity was given a poem entitled Echo which is credited not only to the accomplished, if somewhat troubled, Earl of Oxford but also to Anne herself.
Anne was now in need of a respectable spouse so she was married off to a sea captain called Finch or Field depending on the source. It appears to have been a marriage of convenience as the couple did not have a child. At about the same time she married Anne also became the mistress of Sir Henry Lee who was the queen’s champion. Lee did not hide his affection for Anne. He even had a suit of armour that was decorated with Anne’s initials and love knots – clearly Lee was taking a lesson from his old master Henry VIII. Sir Henry had his own wife at home in Ditchley in Oxfordshire. Eventually Anne had a second son called Thomas in 1589, the year before Sir Henry’s wife died. The boy belonged to Sir Henry although he took the name of Anne’s husband.
After Sir Henry was widowed the pair lived together at his home in Ditchley along with Anne’s two sons. Henry gave Finch/Field a pension – presumably to stay at sea and not make trouble. Lee was on the best of terms with the likes of Robert Dudley and with William Cecil. Despite the fact that he was co-habitting with a married woman who had done a stint in the Tower he was also on such terms with Elizabeth that she visited him at Ditchley.
Sir Henry presented Queen Elizabeth I with the life sized portrait of herself pictured at the start of this post in 1592. It co-incided with Elizabeth’s visit to Ditchley and is about the monarch’s forgiveness of his behaviour. The entertainment included jousting and a series of noble portraits – the best of which was Elizabeth standing on top of the world like the sun after a storm bringing calm weather. Just in case she needed a hint Lee wrote a sonnet to the “prince of light” and reminded Elizabeth that she could take revenge but that she does not take revenge.
Elizabeth duly forgave Lee for falling into a “stranger lady’s thrall” and posterity acquired one of the best known portraits of Elizabeth. The image of Anne shown below is dated to 1605.
Sir Henry died in 1611. He left Anne £700 but his heir- and cousin- challenged Anne in the courts over the inheritance. In 1618, despite her husband being very much alive and well, Anne married for a second time to a man called Richardson. Lee’s cousin promptly took her to court on charges of bigamy. Anne was required, in 1622, to pay a fine of £2000 and to do public penance. The former was excused when Queen Anne , the wife of James I, interceded on her behalf.
The picture of Anne Vavasour shown here is by Robert Peake the elder. She would live until 1650 and although the Church drew the line at allowing the unmarried couple to snuggle up for eternity in a shared tomb, Anne can be found on Sir Henry Lee’s monument in Spelsbury Church
Did you mean to say she lived until 1650?
I did. Thank you.
What became of her first son Edward? Any descendants? For a long time I thought Anne was the Dark Lady, but I am pleased to find that those sonnets were written for and about Queen Elizabeth. Who was much greater an influence on de Vere’s life, having been part of who he was, as well as a symbol to him, for so long.
BTW, your silhouette on the biography page is quite a fine one!
Thank you. I cut it myself. A German pen friend started me off in the 1980s and I still cut them.
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